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Validation is not Agreement

Sometimes my counselling clients, especially in relationship counselling sessions, get confused about what validation is, and what it isn’t. Often, the belief is that if the person validates the way the other person is feeling, […]

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Counselling Articles

The Power of Validation

I’ve worked with hundreds of couples from all walks of life, naturally, they come to me for relationship counselling because things aren’t going as well as they would like. In pretty much all of these […]

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What I learned from our hens

During the COVID lockdowns, there was a resurgence in keeping chickens in backyard coops, and this experience highlighted a few things for me. We were one of the very many families that went out and […]

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New link between Vitamin D and Depression

If you’re struggling to find happiness, maybe boosting your Vitamin D levels might help. A new study out of Finland has found a link between low Vitamin D levels and depression. The researchers from the […]

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Stress relief a walk in the park

High-stress levels are a major contributor to unhappiness and can be a big obstacle to a better relationship. Stress leads us to be more emotional, and to the well-known Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn response […]

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Teenagers benefit from Counselling support

I think most people would agree that the modern world is a fairly stressful place to live. I know, even as an adult, that there are always issues and situations that come up that present […]

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Positive effects of better breathing

When we are under periods of stress the way that we breathe changes, and a new study shows this change could further impact our mental and emotional well-being. There is a consistent link seen in […]

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New link found between stress and salt

If you have a high-salt diet – you may be a little more stressed than the average person, and this could have big knock-on effects. A new study has found a link between a diet […]